The GayteKeeper's recent post about out-of-this-world sex with a man you know is bad for you inspired me to leave the following comment:

We've all experienced getting caught up on that d*ck and not thinking with our minds, fully knowing this man isn't capabable of treating us right. Good sex with a bad man is a place many gay men go, and will go again and again.
But what happens when it's bad sex with a good man? Here's the situation: He's a good-looking guy; he's got a great job; he's self-sufficient, responsible, and drives his own car. There's mutual attraction and you enoy each other's company. But when the lights go down and things get horizontal it's not the explosion of fireworks you expected. Sex between you and him becomes a labored act with concentrated effort to get the bodies to line up and make things to slip and slide in and out of all the right places. Despite the fact his rhythm is off and he's slobbering like bull-mastiff all over your face (or back of your neck) you decide to go through with the orgasm anyways. Let's face it, unlike women, men have the capacity to orgasm even when it's bad. Hell, we could let it blow in the wind for ten minutes and we'd make it to the finish.
So he's perfect in every way but one: he's not the papi-thug with the wonderc*ck. Do you keep him or kick him to the curb?
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